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God Desires Unity

God loves you – God desperately wants a relationship with you – so much so that God became a man and lived among people in order to build that relationship.  None of this is new news really.  All of us have heard the Christmas story most likely.

But have you ever come to grips with the truth that just as God wants a relationship with you and with me, God wants each of us to have a relationship with one another!  I don’t know about you, but that causes me to pause.  The thought that our relationships with each other are just as important to God as our individual relationships with the Almighty.

John 17:20-23 tells us that Jesus prayed that we would be one as he and God are one.  Why?  So that the rest of the world would see that unity and be drawn to God.

Jesus wants us to be unified – one body.  Now we all know that there are divisions among God’s people.  But do you think that brings honor and glory to God – does it draw others to the One who desires us all to be one?

In reality, we are human – we have different likes and dislikes, different ideas and different ways of doing things.  Diversity is a good thing.  But when we focus on what divides to the detriment of what unites, we have lost our way.

What separates you from other followers of the Way?  In the grand scheme of eternity, do those things that separate really matter?

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This week we have been focusing on the topic of leadership.  I thought I would finish the week with something for you to think about for the next few days.  In his book, Good to Great and in other works such as Level Five Leadership, Jim Collins talks about his research into what makes a good leader.  He defines the qualities of a leader in terms of levels.  Level five is the top level.  The primary characteristics he outlines of a level five leader have to do with seemingly contradictory character traits.

The traits he focuses on the most are humility and intensity.  He points out that the strongest leaders he has found possess the unique combination of a sincere humility coupled with an insatiable intensity to succeed in their mission.  As I think about that I can really only think of one leader who truly embodies this combination.

John Maxwell, another leadership guru, was asked years ago where he gets his information for his leadership training.  He smiled and answered, “The Bible.”  Isn’t it amazing that the Bible and ultimately the life of Jesus, has more to teach us about leadership than all the books written since!

Jesus was completely humble in his approach and character.  He never tried to lead from ego or position.  But at the same time, his intensity toward the success of his mission was unstoppable – he lived and breathed his mission.  And look at the results.  A poor, working class man born in a cave among animals into a socially questionable situation; in a small, relatively insignificant country the size of a small state; over 2000 years ago; began a movement that has affected the entire world.  He was not the leader of a world power.  He was a carpenter on a mission.  He grew a small following, who in turn grew a small following and so on – to the point that the entire world was touched.

Now that is leadership!

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Yesterday we talked a little about leadership.  When I think about leadership, normally the idea of success enters the picture in my mind.  So today I am thinking about what it means to be a success or successful.

Patrick Lencioni, in his book, The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, has one of the best definitions of success I have seen.  He defines success this way:

Success is not a matter of mastering subtle sophisticated theory, but rather of embracing common sense with uncommon levels of discipline and persistence.

So often we think of success as a destination.  We think, “when I just make supervisor, I will be successful” or “when I have that second house in the mountains, then I will be a success.”  Or, in the church we might think, “when we reach ‘x’ many in Sunday School, then our church will be successful.”

What Lencioni is saying is success in not a destination, it is what happens along the way.  We don’t become successful when we develop and follow a specific set of steps to reach a place.  Success is not a fluke of lining up all the elements of life into the perfect sequence and then “POW” – success.

Success is really found in understanding what needs to be done and then being committed and persistent enough to do it day in and day out.  Thus understood, success my look different for you than it does for me.  It is more about defining your purpose in life and then living every day to carry it out.

Are you hoping to be “successful” some day or are you being successful today?  Your choice.

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Are You a Leader?

One of the most important attributes a person can have is the ability to lead.  You don’t have to be in a position of authority to lead.  I believe that if more people understood this fact, our world would be a better place.

I remember when my middle son was 4 years old, he took to soccer with a passion.  He was serious about it.  We practiced near a train track.  When his teammates stopped to watch the train go by instead of focusing on the drills, he kept on.  When his teammates were leaving the field in the middle of a game because they would rather play with the kids on the sidelines than play in the game, he was driving down the field  to score.  He was the leader.

What makes this relevant to my point today is that, my middle son is a behind the scenes kind of guy.  While my youngest is the guy on stage, singing, acting or speaking, my middle son is the one running the sound or the lights or the video.  He does not like being out front (at least not at this stage of life).  But yet he understands even today what it means to lead.

You don’t have to be out front to be a leader.  Leadership is more about character than it is about how many people you can tell what to do.  In fact, I’m going to go out on a limb here and say that if your idea of leadership is being able to tell people what to do – you are not much of a leader.

The best example of a leader I can think of lived a little over 2000 years ago.  His leadership was not handed to him in a position.  In fact, he came from nothing.  He lead not by commanding a following but rather by living with passion and focus and complete surrender to his calling.  There is something contagious about that.

What are you passionate about?  I challenge you today to lead out – don’t wait for permission – just do it.

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Joy In Following Christ

I was dropping boys at the gym this morning and listening to the radio as I drove to work.  You may have heard the short little thought provoking snippets on @Air1 called @WalktheWay by Jeff Klein and if so, you may have heard this there but it really got me to thinking.

The scenario was painted about a person who decided to write a book about the joys of being single.  His first chapter was inspired while at dinner with friends who had a two year old.  He said his first chapter of his book about the joys of being single would be, “The Joy of Uninterrupted Dinners Without Needing a Shower Afterwards.”

Jeff went on to describe what his friend would title the next few chapters, but his point was that his friend was obviously passionate about being single.  He then asked the question of what our book would look like if we were to write about the joys of following Christ.  I have been pondering that question since.  Would one of my chapters be titled, “The Joy of Eternal Security”?  That would certainly be a chapter at some point.

Maybe a chapter titled, “The Joy of Having Peace.”  That would be a lengthy chapter.  But today, the chapter I would write would be, “The Joy of Being Free.”  The subtitle of the chapter would be, “Free From the World’s Expectations and Free to Be Who God Created Me to Be.”  (Lengthy sub-title)

I am really passionate about the fact that God created me to be me.  That means understanding the big picture of God’s plan and living in it daily.  That is liberating!  There is true joy in knowing that I live for God and not to please others, which I am reminded daily that pleasing everyone else is impossible.

Are you passionate about following Christ!  What would you write about today?

Let me know how you would finish this title:  Chapter 1 . . .

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Yesterday, I spent most of the morning at the doctor’s office with my son.  He hasn’t been feeling well most of the week but has been toughing it out.  Yesterday, he woke up and could not stand upright without terrible pain in his stomach.  As soon as the office opened, we headed to see the doctor.

As he was being examined, I watched as the doctor gently pressed on his stomach.  I could see the pain on my son’s face as the doctor examined him.  I wanted so badly to help him but there was nothing I could do.  In that moment, I was reminded, in a very, very small way, the sacrifice that God made for me.

God sent Jesus into this world to show us how to live.  But in walking with us he experienced a lot of pain – even to the point of torture and death.  God watched all of that but chose to let it happen.  I cannot imagine the pain God felt in watching Jesus die.

Jesus was sent as a sacrifice for you and for me.  That is what Christmas is about.  We should celebrate the coming of the Savior, but never forget the sacrifice that was made.  Christmas is coming, but it comes knowing there is an Easter to follow.

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Burning Desire For God

I used Thomas Merton’s devotional book, A Book of Hours, this morning in my prayer time.  One of the prayers he wrote awoke in me a new desire to remain in God’s presence.

Father, Father, whom we thought so hidden

Somewhere behind the jealous walls of Mars,

Oh how You visit us, at the deep roots of life

With glad reprisals

When is the last time you felt God visited you?  When is the last time you truly yearned for more of God?

Today is the day.   Stop what you are doing right now and pray for God to become real to you in this moment  and throughout the rest of this day.

Father, move among us today!  Wash over us with Your love!

Amen

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