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Often, there are multiple reasons we have a hard time connecting to God. In the last post, I mentioned the issue of FOMO. We can become so consumed with not missing out on things that we add and add to our lives to the point that we live a hurried and worried existence. Hurry can also become our norm when our focus is efficiency and productivity. Slowing down to focus on Jesus is hard to do when our lives are lived at mach speed.

But today I am thinking about another reason we lose focus on our relationship with Jesus. Sometimes, it is the burdens we carry that distract us. One of the many powerful experiences I had on the Camino de Santiago was a practice that many along the way added to their journey. Many would pick up rocks along the way to symbolize burdens they were carrying.

One day, early in the walk, I did that. I found a rock to carry and pray over. The rock had a name – the name of what I was carrying in my heart. For a couple of days, I carried that rock in my pocket and every time I noticed its presence, I prayed for God to work in the situation – to bring about healing and restoration. Then about day 3 of carrying that rock, I laid it down at one of the direction markers along the trail. As I laid it down, my prayer was one of surrender. I gave that burden, as best I could, to God and asked Him to take care of it. As I walked away, I felt His answer. What He told me was that I needed to continue to pray for the situation and show love as best I can, and leave the rest to Him.

I would like to be able to report that I have done a great job of not picking up that burden again, but I can say there has been a new sense of peace and hope.

There are so many things we carry – concerns for family, for careers, for community, for our world. But we were not designed to carry the world on our shoulders – that is God’s job. Whatever we carry can become a distraction that prevents us from truly connecting to the One who can take the weight from us.

What do you need to lay down today? Jesus is ready to take it but you have to offer it.

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Stay Salty

Over the past several months I have given much thought to living the life in The Way – daily following Jesus. I have thought about my effectiveness to this point – and often times the lack of effectiveness. But more recently, I have been thinking about my effectiveness as a believer moving forward. There are now many more days on this planet behind me than there are in front of me. So how do I make sure the days I have left are spent pleasing Jesus?

In my devotional life, I am reading through the Sermon on the Mount – the greatest sermon ever preached – offered by Jesus Himself to His followers on the northern side of the lake in Galilee. At the beginning of the sermon, Jesus gave us a list of characteristics we should try to exhibit each day – what we have come to call the Beatitudes. Immediately after the list, He said this, “You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled by men.” (Matthew 5:13)

Salt brings out flavors in food; in moderation, it is a good thing. It also can be used as a preservative. Our lives are to bring enhancement to those around us – to add flavor to life. Our lives can bring preservation when our lives point others to the One who rescues. I don’t know about you, but if I am to be salt in a tasteless world, I don’t want to lose my saltiness.

What I have found is the only way to stay salty is to stay close to the source. When we move further away from the source, and allow ourselves to be diluted by the world, we lose saltiness. Jesus reminded us, in the Gospel of John, that we must remain or abide in Him – like a branch connected to a vine. Our effectiveness – or saltiness – is dependent on our staying close to Him.

How will you stay close and stay connected to Him today to ensure you don’t become diluted by the world around you?

Stay salty!

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This past weekend, I had the wonderful opportunity to gather with pastor couples in Ciudad Juarez, Mexico. This was part of the ministry I serve with that offers retreats for pastors and their wives. Our ministry, Proyecto Fortaleza (The Strengthening Project) exists to focus on spiritual renewal and marriage enrichment.

The theme of our retreat this year was, Becoming Holy. Our sessions dealt with what holiness means and looks like, and how we are to strive for that holiness in our lives and in our marriages. 1 Peter 3:16 says, “be holy as I am holy.” Our commitment to follow Jesus means we are to truly follow Him – every day. Our decision to surrender to Jesus and accept Him as Savior is a commitment for a lifetime. But to make Him our Lord is a daily decision. We have to decide, each day, if we are going to strive for holiness or just go through the motions.

One of my readings for today came from the Sermon on the Mount. Matthew 5:13-16. In this passage Jesus says we are salt and light. Much has been said about being the light of the world. We are to let our light shine so that all who see it give praise to God. That is what we are called to do as believers – live in such a way that others see Jesus.

But we often rush right past the illustration of being salt. Salt is less about what we do and more about who we are – or are becoming. Salt, because of its internal properties, enhances the taste of food. But Jesus pointed out that if salt loses its saltiness, it is of little use. As I have meditated on this idea, I am reminded that we are to do our part to keep our soul close to Him – to keep our saltiness. Jesus is more concerned about who we are and what we become than what we do. If we lose our passion for Jesus, our light will not be effective. It starts with being salt before we can be light.

So don’t lose your saltiness. Take time to grow in your faith – to stay close to Jesus. He has called you to be salt to a tasteless world and then to be light in the darkness around you.

He is counting on you.

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I have been fumbling for words since Sunday. On Sunday, our church celebrated Kristi and myself for 10 years of service as pastor of this wonderful family we call First Baptist Church of Corpus Christi. It is hard to believe we have served here for 10 years. I am still processing the day and the love that was shown to us. So, there will most likely be other posts in the next few days about the experience.

But for today, I am thinking about how important community is for each of us. No one on the planet is immune to difficulty and struggle. Here is another statement that is just as true: not one person was created to go it alone. We were designed for relationships. Granted, some are more social than others, but each and every person on earth was created for relationship. The most meaningful relationship available to us is a relationship with God. That is why we exist, to have a relationship with Him.

And because we were created as relational beings, were are crafted for other relationships as well. There is power in relationships – in community. We never need to feel we are alone. In reality, if you feel alone, more times than not, it is because you have chosen to be alone. Community is available to all.

As I sat on Sunday morning and experienced the support and encouragement from our church for our service here, what overwhelmed me most was the sheer power of relationships in community. Our church truly is a family. Ten years ago, we went to work creating a culture of “home” in our church. We even hung a huge banner on the side of our building that says, “Welcome Home.”

Some weeks the sense of family and home is more noticeable than others but this past Sunday it was clear. What a powerful expression of love and connection. Community is important – even crucial to our existence. If you are not part of a Christian community, seek one out. And if you are in the Corpus Christi area, stop by and experience family with us. There is no reason to walk this journey alone.

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I really need to get back into the gym. I am not in the physical shape I would like to be. Exercise has been on my To Do list for a while, but my back has been giving me trouble for about a month. Every time I think about hitting the weights, I give it a second thought and I don’t. The back is finally coming around and so it will be back to the gym in the next day or two.

But today, I am thinking about a different kind of weight. Over a year ago I created a sticky note reminder to myself, that simply asks, “What is the heaviest weight you are carrying right now?” It is a reminder for me to look to God for strength and not try to carry weight I was never designed nor called to carry. But taking on too much comes naturally for me, it is my personality. I have a tendency to take on too much and carry more than I should.

Maybe that is you today. Perhaps you feel no one could possibly understand even a fraction of what is on your plate and the load you carry. But my reading in Romans chapter 8 this morning reminded me, as I hope it will remind you, that you are not alone – the Father is with you and He knows what you carry. Even now, He is working things out for the good of those who love Him. Through Christ in us, we are more than conquerors because He is with us. Nothing we face or carry or encounter or even bring on ourselves can separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus.

Jesus never promised that when we follow Him we would never encounter difficulty or struggle. But He did promise that we would have a travel companion as we walk this path – He is with you today. Have hope and take strength in that fact.

Now – where did I put that gym membership card?

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Earlier this week, I had a wonderful opportunity to get away from the routine for an overnight retreat with area pastors. We had a great time of fellowship getting to know friends in ministry better, as well as meeting new ones. As we settled in for the night, I began to get comfortable in my little twin bed in my little room. The bed was pushed up against the wall, under the only window in the room.

Just as I began to relax, the lights outside the building came on; and even though the blinds were closed, the light lit up the entire room. As I lay there, my first impulse was frustration – “Now I’m never going to be able to get to sleep!” While it was not like daytime in the room, it was bright enough to make out all areas of the little domicile.

But as I thought about this new obstacle to my sleep, I thought about the power of light. It illuminates and reveals. I had no problem seeing everything in the room, even though the source of light was not in the room. Just the light coming through the closed blinds was enough to light up the room. That is the power of light in the darkness.

This Sunday, we will continue our series of looking at what we believe – the topic this Sunday will be God the Son. Jesus, one of the three persons of the trinity, is God the Son. One of the focal texts for Sunday will be John 1:1-5. It is a beautiful passage detailing the deity and eternal nature of Jesus. This passage opens with, “In the beginning was the Word and the Word was with God and the Word was God.” We are told in verse 14, that the Word became flesh and took up residence next door.

But captured in this glorious text are 2 verses that reveal so much about Jesus. We are told in verses 4-5, “In him was life, and that life was the light of men. The light shines in the darkness but the darkness has not understood it.” Jesus, the One who was in the beginning with God and IS God, is life – life in the truest sense. And that life is the light of all mankind.

In John 8:12, Jesus says, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” Jesus is life and light. His very nature brings clarity and illuminates true life. When we follow Him, we experience the life He created us to live because He reveals the best path for us to take. Our world is a very dark place. We need His light to make it through.

Jesus is the light of the world – walk in His light today.

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Last Sunday I began a new sermon series built around the basic principles of our faith. Our church exists to make disciples. We find our identity in sharing Christ and growing in faith together. But how can we do that effectively if we are not clear on what we believe. As Baptists, we are a non-creedal people – meaning, one need not sign a creed to be part of the family.

However, we do come together around common-held, foundational doctrines that give us a basis of relating to one another. And so, we are now in the midst of exploring some of those foundational doctrines as a church family.

This Sunday, we will look at what we believe about God the Father. While the Holy Trinity is a mystery to us and there is no way we could ever define God, the Bible does describe God in terms that help us know Him. We see God’s attributes throughout scripture – His holiness, power and truth. We see His love, compassion and provision. We experience these things not only in His word, but in the way He interacts with us each day – if we are paying attention.

I am one who loves nature – being out in it. The mountains or the beach, a river or a deer blind – it does not matter – as long as I am present in the moment, I feel a closeness to God through His creation. Two of the most special experiences to me are sunrises and sunsets. Not everyone may feel the same, but I have always had a connection to the Father more powerfully in those moments than in most other experiences. Seeing the sun peak over the horizon draws me to the point of hope for a new day and God’s involvement in it. As the sun sneaks out of sight, I am drawn to the idea of resting in the Father’s lap.

I encourage you to slow down today and look for the Father around you. His presence is ever a reality. The issue is not the absence of God in our lives but rather our awareness. Take time to look. Take time to be present. Take time to watch the sunset.

Be blessed!

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Have you ever been in a hurry and hit a detour? Recently, I had an early morning appointment and I headed off down the freeway only to get to my exit and an unexpected detour. Instead of being able to turn left, I was forced to turn right. Frustrated, I followed the detour until I could turn around and head in the direction I needed to go. As I approached the same area, now on a different freeway, I was again forced to detour onto the same freeway I had been on before all this started.

I will spare you the turn by turn outcome but the short of it was I had to travel eight miles out of the way to get to where I was headed. I was beyond frustrated but I still made it on time and no crisis ensued. But it reinforced a life lesson I learned years ago – always give yourself extra time to get to important engagements just in case life has other plans. Life is full of unexpected turns and interruptions – we can try and foresee them and plan accordingly but the reality is, we can never forecast every interruption. If we could, they would cease to be interruptions.

As I have thought about that experience, I have been reminded that detours, unexpected twists and turns and interruptions are going to happen. We cannot avoid them but we can try and let God work through them. Often, God allows these interruptions to get our attention and remind us to slow down and remember we are on His path – not our own. We like to think we can control every detail of our lives but it just is not so.

I encourage you to embrace detours and interruptions by stepping back and asking the question, “What can I learn from this experience?” I am not suggesting God causes the detours in life but do know that He will redeem each one when we let Him.

Detour Ahead – – are you ready?

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In continuing the idea of slowing down and making space for God to work in our lives, one question that always arises is, “What do I do during this time?” As I mentioned in the previous post, God grants the growth, but we must do our part. Our part is to create space in our schedules as well as our hearts. We must put ourselves in a position to be shaped by God.

So, as odd as it sounds as an answer to the question above, one of the first things you must do is nothing. Most of us have a hard time with doing nothing. The drive to produce and perform compels us to make the most of every minute of the day. A full calendar suggests we are winning. But we need to adjust the scorecard. Busyness is not necessarily productivity. Sometimes, the most productive time is the time spent in being still and simply reflecting on the goodness of God.

But moving beyond doing nothing, the use of the liminal space (the space between the now and not yet) we create when we set aside time and attention is best filled with spiritual practices. There are volumes written on spiritual disciplines – the ancient practices that connect us to God – practices like silence and solitude, prayer and scripture reading, fasting and serving. While the list is much more extensive, the point is to find those practices that fit you where you are.

So often we decide we are going to intentionally work at growing in our faith and overnight we strive to do it all. Then, in a few short days or weeks, we begin to slip and before we know it, we are back to where we started with the added element of guilt for not following through. My encouragement is to start small.

Set aside 15 minutes per day for four days of the week to practice one of the disciplines. Alternate those disciplines throughout the week. An example might be on Monday, spend time simply reading scripture and reflecting on it. Then on Wednesday, spend time in prayer – both talking and listening. On Friday, fast from something to remind yourself of your need for God. Or find ways to serve others in some capacity. On Sunday, spend time in community at church worshipping God and learning from His word.

These are just examples. The primary focus is being intentional about opening yourself to God. Consistency is also important. We often shy away from the word discipline, but that is exactly what it takes to be consistent.

Today, start small. Find 15 minutes in your schedule and slowly read Psalm 1. Reflect on it and then read it again. Pay specific attention to what God says to you. Then resolve to take what He says and act on it.

Leave a comment to let me know about your experience as we grow in faith together.

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This past weekend, I had the absolute blessing to be with pastors and their wives in Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic. I am privileged to lead a ministry called The Strengthening Project (Proyecto Fortaleza en Español). This ministry exists to pour into pastors and their ministries by strengthening them spiritually and renewing their marriages. Given my field of study, I focus on the spiritual progression side of our ministry and we have others on the team that focus on the rest.

Our theme this past weekend was, The Love of God – Our True Foundation. I spent time reminding the couples that God truly loves them. As pastors, we know this truth in our minds and we certainly tell our people regularly, but often we do not slow down and listen with our hearts. I challenged them to use the retreat as a time to be still and deeply reflect on just how much God loves them. Our sessions were well received and the emphasis on slowing down and reflecting resonated with each of them.

After one of my sessions, one of the men there, a dear friend of mine who lives in the Domincan, asked me very directly, “How do YOU do what you have just shared with us.” Being a bit caught off guard by his question, I answered by saying I have many opportunities to attend conferences and retreats like the one we were leading – the difference is that there is a monetary cost when I do. That is why we offer our retreats to pastors and their wives at no cost to them – we know the people we are serving would not have an opportunity like what God provides through our ministry if we did not exist.

I could tell that my answer did not satisfy my friend. As I pondered his question, it dawned on me, he was not asking “how” I do it but “if” I do it. I looked at him and said, “In English we would say, ‘Do you practice what you preach,’ – is that what you are asking?” He smiled and said, “Yes, that is what I am asking.”

In that moment I felt conviction and a bit like a hypocrite. It is much easier to tell people about the importance of slowing down and spending time with the Father. But for a type A personality that is overly task oriented and time sensitive, it is much harder to practice than to tell other people to do so.

And so . . . one of the first places I knew I needed to get back to is a place of making time for being still and resting in God’s word as I listen to His voice.

The second is here – – this platform of Clay In the Hands has been, since its inception, a place I have shared how God is speaking to me, a place where I can encourage others to grow in faith, and a place to be authentic as we seek Jesus together.

Thank you Russell for calling me out graciously and with a smile. I now have a renewed commitment to spend time daily with the Father and to share my thoughts here. May we continue to walk in The Way together.

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