As I opened my browser this morning, I focused in on the verse of the day on Bible Gateway. The verse was Romans 12:3 which says, “For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you.”
I read the verse over several times and the words that kept jumping out at me were “sober judgement.” Paul reminds us that we should have a healthy self-view. We should not think too highly of ourselves. Of course, scripture is clear that when we come to an authentic relationship with Jesus, we are a new creation – we are worth something. So scripture does not suggest that we are pitiful, worthless individuals. But we also have to be cautious not to begin to think too much of ourselves.
The reason these words “sober judgement” spoke to me this morning is because the key to healthy self-worth is not in telling yourself you are something you are not, nor is it beating yourself up over your faults. The key to healthy self-worth is being completely honest and real with yourself and the Father. God already knows everything about us – in fact, God knows us better than we know ourselves. Sober judgement is having a view of ourselves that is not influenced by what others might think or what we want them to think.
Sober judgement is being real, transparent and open with ourselves and knowing that regardless of where we find ourselves on this day, God loves us!
You are loved today!
Thanks for this post. Thanks for your teaching tonight. Yes indeed it is important to be balanced about ourselves. Yet as you stated, it begins with us and the Father. When we are able to do this, we will learn to be transparent with others.
Blessings and Grace,
Russell Howard