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If you read my post last Thursday, you know that Kristi and I got away to celebrate 2o years of marriage.  In my planning for our time together, I wanted to have at least one romantic meal.  I did my research and even emailed the San Antonio Visitors center to get some ideas.  After all that, I decided on a restaurant that would be the perfect choice.  I even made reservations to ensure that our evening would be memorable.

We took a cab to the area and arrived early to make sure that we could find the site of our candle light experience.  Promptly at 7:30, we walked up to the hostess and I said rather smugly, “We are the Hill’s and we have a reservation for 2.”

The hostess picked up two menus and asked us to follow her to our special table.  It did not take too long, as we strolled through a restaurant of empty tables, to figure out that we were the only ones in the joint.  As I looked around, I could see a sheer curtain separating our fine dining from the breakfast buffet line.  Come to find out, we were in a hotel restaurant in downtown San Antonio – and yes, we were the only ones there!

What I thought was going to be a fine dining experience in an eclectic, romantic atmosphere, turned out to be something similar to a trip to Denny’s with candles and linen napkins.  Not what I had envisioned at all!  Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy Denny’s as much as the next guy, but not for a romantic dinner to celebrate 20 years of wedded bliss!

Kristi was a great sport – I think she could see my embarrassment and disappointment.  But the one good thing about being married for 20 years, when it was all said and done, we had a great time and now we have a humorous memory of our romantic evening in San Antonio.

Have you ever had a “date” with your spouse that didn’t turn out as you planned?

A Day Away

Today, Kristi and I are taking a couple of days to get away.  We will be celebrating 20 years of marriage next month, but this was the only 2 days we could get away together for the next 3 months – so here we are.

I am so blessed to have such a wonderful partner for life.  I have mentioned before that she is a perfect pastor’s wife.  It has been a great 20 years!  I am excited about the next 20, 40 or whatever God gives us!

Thank you Lord for your giving us each other!

I have been reminded this week of the joys of getting back into the swing of exercising on a regular basis.  Today marks day three.  I am still in the phase of not being able to walk normally nor straighten my arms.  I told myself I would “ease” back into it slowly.  But as has been my pattern in the past, I worked up the desire to get back into the gym and once there, over did it – now I am paying the price.

However, I know from experience that the answer to my pain is consistency.  Eventually, the pain will subside and over time, the sacrifice of a little sleep will result in more energy and better flexibility.

I have found that my spiritual walk shares many of the same characteristics.  The key to any spiritual practice is consistency.  So often we allow ourselves to relax in our commitment to pray and read the Bible and before we are fully aware of it, we have gone weeks without spending time with God.  So we resolve to jump in and often overdo it – overcommitting ourselves and soon we are burned out and even worse, feeling guilty about it.

But if we can ease into a routine of spending time with God, carving out 20 minutes or so, 3 or 4 times per week and remain consistent, then in a matter of days we will begin to feel more energy, peace and joy in our lives than we have ever experienced.

Spiritual progression comes from God, but we have to persistently do our part.  Commit today to stay consistent in your routine of spiritual practices – your walk in following the Way and then stick with it – don’t let up.

You will never regret time spent with the Creator of the Universe!

A Thirst for God

I have mentioned before that I regularly listen to the Jesuit podcast, Pray as You Go.  It is a 10 minute daily devotional done in a guided Lectio Divina format (spiritual reading).  I encourage you to check it out.  You can do that here.

At any rate, the opening question in yesterday’s podcast was this, “Can you feel that thirst within you that only God can quench?”

I had to wrestle with this question.  I am not sure that I can, at least not on a regular basis.  Sure, there are times when I am sensitive to God’s leading in my life and to the desire that I have to be guided.  But on a daily basis, I have to admit that I get wrapped up in doing what I think “has” to be done and neglect the fact that I should be more focused on what God wants me to do.  I should thirst for God as if my life depended on it because it does.

Do you ever find yourself in this situation?  Perhaps you are there today.

If so, here is my prayer for us today:

Father, you know that we love you – that we desire to be loved by you.  But so often we get busy in our routine and neglect to truly seek after you.  Fill each of us today with an insatiable desire and thirst for you – for more of you!  May we not be able to truly rest unless it is in you!

Amen

May you be satisfied today by the Living Water!

Pray for the Border

I spent Tuesday and most of Wednesday last week in El Paso, finalizing plans for a mission trip for our local college students.  My request today

is for your prayer for the people in that area.  I am sure that you have heard of the violence in the Juarez, Mexico area that has been going on for the last couple of years.  Until the last few months this violence has been centered in Juarez and has been going on primarily between two drug cartel’s fighting over territory.

But recently, the violence has been turned toward the local town folks as far out as 60 miles from Juarez.  The need for prayer is obvious, but specifically, we need to pray for the innocent people caught in a no win situation.  Their homes have been taken or destroyed.  They have no place to go and little hope to survive short of scavenging and stealing.  Pray for God’s provision and protection.

The local pastors are in even more of a dilemma because they are being threatened as well, but they feel the need to stay and minister to the hurting people in the area.  What little support these pastors have received in years past from church partners state-side, has been cut off due to the violence.  Mission groups are making other plans this year and going other places that are not so dangerous.

I ask that you take 5 minutes today to stop and pray for these people.  Pray that God will break into this situation and be glorified.  Pray for protection, courage and strength for the pastors and their families who choose to stay and minister in this horrible situation.  We already know the outcome of the war – God will prevail.  But pray that God will sustain these people until that day!

Simply Faithful

As a young man, he felt the call of God to the ministry.  He studied theology and began preaching.  He had a passion for teaching and so in 1910, shortly after his marriage to a young woman he met on a ship to America, the newly weds found a house and opened a school in London.  He taught and his wife took shorthand of his lectures.  She had been blessed with the ability to take shorthand at the amazing rate of 250 words per minute.

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When World War I broke out, they sensed that God was calling them to serve their country some how.  And so he enlisted as a chaplain in the British military and was stationed in Egypt.  His wife and young daughter joined him there.

He continued his teaching in a small hut in the desert of Egypt and his wife continued to take his teachings down in shorthand.  The soldiers were skeptical at first but eventually, he earned the respect of the men.  His ministry would not have been recognized by the world as “successful.”  He had a meager attendance at most of his meetings.  But he inspired the men and he served God faithfully doing what he believed God had called him to do.

In 1917, he died in Egypt due to complications with a routine appendectomy and the soldiers gave him a full military service with all the honors.  He was laid to rest in the sands of Egypt.  His wife and child returned to London.

After settling in London, his wife began the laborious task of  transcribing her notes from the years of lectures and teaching.  Over time, family and friends began to ask to read some of the work.  Different lectures began to be pulled together into pamphlets and then later, the pamphlets were pulled together into a book.  Many books have followed, but one stands out.

The man was Oswald Chambers and his wife was Gertrude (or Biddy, as he called her) and the book – My Utmost for His Highest, published first in 1927.

What would have been seen at the time  by most to have been a simple, ordinary, uneventful ministry has been used by God to touch people all over the world and continues to do so today.  Thanks to Oswald’s faithfulness and Biddy’s hard work, the world has been moved.

What has God called you to do today?  It does not matter how mundane it may seem, if God has called you to the task, God will bless it.  God never calls us to be “successful” – simply faithful.

Be faithful today!

I read an article last night by John Ortberg, a pastor and author in California who often writes about the spiritual life (You can link to the article here).  In this particular article, John made a statement with which I am still wrestling.  He said that we as a church, teach people that we are saved by grace – we cannot earn our salvation.  However, we fail to teach how to live by grace.  The conversion process happens when we realize there is a gap between us and God and that we cannot bridge that gap without a relationship with Jesus.

But then, we proceed to try and live the Christian life, and it is not very far down the road that we begin to see another gap – the gap between the person we are and the person God wants us to be.  The problem is, we have conditioned ourselves to believe that this gap is on us to bridge.

Ortberg points out that we can not bridge either gap.  All we can do is humbly desire to be led by God’s Spirit and do what Jesus says to do.  But what does this look like?  The church has defined this “maturity” level as being committed to the church and the it’s programing.  The problem with this criteria is that Jesus condemned the Pharisees for having the same expectations.

Perhaps the real measure of spiritual maturity is how we love.  Do you love the Father and your neighbor as Jesus does?

Real spiritual maturity can be depicted in selfless love humbly offered with no strings attached.  And we can only offer this kind of love out of the abundance of love we have received from God as a result of our relationship.

Live by grace today!

The God of Renewal

I left the house very early this morning and noticed something refreshing – it was 60 degrees outside.  Spring is truly here.

I love this season – thunderstorms, warmer temperatures and things growing.  The change of seasons reminds us of God’s continual care for us.  Just as our world is not stagnant and still, neither is our God.  God is fresh everyday.  God is in the renewal business.

So today as you see grass greening up and flowers beginning to bloom, be reminded that regardless of what your life is like, God is in the renewal and renovation business.  God seeks a vibrant, growing relationship with you!

Start fresh and be rejuvenated today!

Leadership Spin

Several years ago, back when we still used dial-up internet service and thought that was amazing, we decided to upgrade at the office and move to a blazing 768 mbps service.  It was a new technology for our area and operated via an antenna on top of the building that connected by radio signal to a tower 1/4 mile away.  As we met with the sales person in setting up the installation, I asked  the simple question, “How will the antenna be mounted to our building?”

You see, before entering ministry, I spent a considerable amount of my working life in the roofing industry (and oh, the stories I can tell about those days), and as such, I did not want a monstrosity affixed to our building that was going to be the cause for roof leaks and head aches down the road.  I was assured that the antenna was a simple mast with a small box on top of the pole.  I asked my follow-up question, “How will it be fastened down?”

Here was the answer I received: We use non-penetrating roof anchors.” I thought to myself, “non-penetrating roof anchors huh?  Never heard of it!  Must be new.”

Finally, the day arrived for the installation – we were finally going to move into the world that allowed more than one person to be on the web at a time (that sounds comical when I read that statement).  The installers arrived and I escorted them to the roof.  A few hours later I went to check on them and also to see for myself what a non-penetrating roof anchor looked like.  I wish I could say that what I saw was an amazing piece of scientific engineering.  But alas, it was as I expected.  The mast was a shiny, galvanized 1″ pipe about 8 feet tall.  At the top of the mast was a small rectangular, tan box – the receiver.  At the bottom of the mast were three legs and at the base of each leg was a . . .  you guessed it – a brick.  The non-penetrating roof anchors were concrete block bricks – what an amazing piece of technology!

I tell this story to make a point, we can spin anything we want to be anything we want.  We have become masters of accentuating the positive and diminishing the negative – ok that was an example of the very thing I am talking about.  In reality, what I meant to say was we have a way of blowing the positive out of proportion and sweeping the negative under the rug.  It all depends on what we are trying to accomplish.

The non-penetrating roof anchors did hold the antenna in place – but they were still just bricks.  The next time I needed something from my sales person, I took what they told me with a grain of salt.

As leaders, all we really have to stand on is our word.  Without the trust of the people we lead, we will not make it very far.  So tell the truth.  Don’t spin the facts to paint a different picture.  Find an honest way to motivate people and they will follow you – every time!

Have you ever been having one of those days when nothing was going right?  You over slept, then got in the shower to realize there was no soap.  Then you got in the car to head off to work and  caught all the lights along the way.  Had one of those kinds of days lately?

We all have those kinds of days occasionally – that is a fact of life.

But in the midst of a day like that, have you ever had someone just simply smile at you and it brightened your day?  I hope you have had that experience.  Someone showed some kindness to you for no reason and it made you feel better.  In fact, many times it becomes contagious.  You later catch yourself smiling at someone else.

Today, I challenge you to be the instigator.  Someone in your path today is going to be having a rotten day.  Give them a smile or hold the door open for them.  It will lift their spirits.  And in the process it just might lift yours.

Have a great weekend!